People talk about this one all the time. Heck, there’s even a movie devoted to the topic, starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis. If you’re not ‘in the know,’ friends with benefits may not be a new trend, per se, but it could be the first time it’s had a label attached to it. And there’s a generation that is insistent on ‘friends with benefits’ as a lifestyle choice.
The gist of it? Two consenting individuals having sex with zero strings attached. No flowers or dating obligations, just warm bodies and naughty intentions. Does it have its benefits? Sure; in a strictly sexual sense. But for every proponent of the agreement, there are several more who insist that the arrangement never ends well.
Why? It sounds good in theory. All of the alleged ‘benefits’ of a relationship without any of the restrictions or emotional obligations. But lost in translation is that sex is more than just a physical act, no matter how hard we try to isolate the emotional/personal elements of it. And time and time again, the same dilemma arises at one point or another – one of the involved parties can no longer suppress the emotional attachments that they’ve developed. And before you can say ‘quickie,’ the arrangement goes up in flames.
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- Keep it Simple – Romance doesn’t always have to involve extravagance. You just have to think a bit more clearly about the things that are already available for sparking romance. For example, when was the last time you ran a bubble bath? Or how about making a fort out of blankets? These ideas cost you nothing, but they transform the mundane into something a bit more exciting than the norm.
- Play Dress-Up – Can’t afford to splurge on a night out? No problem. Everyone has at least one “going out” outfit, so why not throw it on for a night in? Treat your kitchen as if it were the most exclusive restaurant and town, and dress the part. Light a candle, serve the meal. The menu doesn’t matter – it’s the ambiance, and you can also add some ‘adult fun’ for next to nothing.
- Power-Off the Phones – These days, our phones are used for everything from calls to emails and texts and even more. When was the last time you shut off your phone for a movie, let alone an entire night? Challenge yourselves to do just that. Then, go ahead and soak up the quiet. With no distractions, you’ll have plenty of time to focus in on each other.
Got any tips of your own? We’d love to hear them. Share your fantasies, then come to visit us and live them out in one of our sultry themed rooms. We’re sure we’ll have you coming back for more.