Let’s dive into masculine pleasure

In our second post, we took a deep dive into women’s pleasure. In our third and last article on erogenous zones, we are exploring men’s bodies and finishing this journey.

In him

21 Glans

The glans, also known as the head of the penis is one of the most sensitive parts in the human body, thanks tto is aproximately 4,000 nerve endings. 

You can touch it delicately with your lips or fingers, or run your tongue, and then lightly blow through it. If he likes it rougher, try biting it very delicately, or sucking it as the vacuum creates a very pleasurable sensacion (also works wonderfuly in the clit, by the way!) 

22 Frenulum

The frenulum is that thin, elastic strip of skin on the underside of the penis. It connects the shaft with the head. This is the elastic piece of skin on the underside of the penis, where the shaft meets the head. Some studies show that stimulating the frenulum is very effective at deactivating the Default Mode Network of the brain, which means bringing your partner’s attention back to the present. Come on… how wouldn’t you get someone’s full attention if you were licking right there?

23 Foreskin

For uncircumcised men, gliding the foreskin up and down the glans can be very stimulating while giving a handjob. You could also alternate between licking the foreskin and frenulum. Just start slowly and be careful, as you’re treating with very delicate skin. 

24 & 25 Scrotum and testicles

The scrotum, the skin containing the testicles, has thousands of sensitive nerves willing to give pleasure. Caress them either separately or holding them both in your hand and pressure gently. You can also let your tongue run its magic starting at the testicles and going up through the penis, or caressing your partner with your torso or breasts. 

26 Perineum

That sensitive spot between the scrotum and anus is also located just below the prostate, which makes it a powerful source of double pleasure. You can reach this spot during a handjob or blowjob and apply pressure in circles or back and forth as ejaculation approaches for a mind-blowing orgasm. 

27 Prostate

This walnut-sized gland is responsible for producing semen fluids and pushing semen through the urethra during ejaculation. It is also a pleasure golden spot. As we just mentioned, you can stimulate the prostate gently from the exterior by massaging the perineum, but if your partner is up for more intense sensations and you are intimate enough, you could explore anal penetration using lube and your fingers or a prostate vibrator. Depending on your partner’s reaction, you could complement it by stroking the penis or giving oral sex for maximum pleasure.

28 Anus

Anal sex can be a source of great pleasure and intimacy when done right. First of all, you need to look for consent. Ask your partner if they are willing to experiment and if so, apply abundant lubricant before massaging with one finger. As the anal sphincter starts to relax, you can explore adding another finger and exploring your way until your partner is ready to be penetrated with your penis or sex toy. Being patient and careful is crucial because, otherwise, your partner is not going to relax, the experience is going to be very painful, and you might make your partner bleed. However, it can be a potent source of male and female orgasms! 

29 Inner thighs

The skin in the inner thighs is very rarely exposed to touch, which makes it very sensitive. Additionally, its closeness to the genitals makes it a zone that can drive your partner crazy when you scratch it gently with your nails or finger tips, or if you let your lips wander around the area. 

30 & 31 Bottom of feet and toes

Same as it happens with anal sex, some people love it, others can’t stand the idea of touching or being touched here. However, massaging the feet can be a great form of foreplay to help relax your partner, increasing intimacy between the two of you. And if you suck of lick the toes, you might cause your partner to feel great pleasure in their genitals as these areas sit right next to each other in the brain. 

As we said at the beginning of the series (and just proved!) the entire body is erogenous. Enjoy yourself, enjoy connecting with your partner and let go of worries about reaching an orgasm. The more you both enjoy the process, the greater the outcome will be.