Long Term Relationship Advice

With each New Year often come plenty of New Year’s resolutions. “I’m going to lose weight” or “I’m going to quit smoking or drinking” are popular ones, but what about your relationship with your significant other? Despite our best efforts, it’s not all that uncommon for us to get complacent in love – but it shouldn’t be that way. At Executive Fantasy Hotels, we’re in the “love” business, and we’re determined to help our fans and guests keep the spice in their love life going all year round. How? These three tips should help you stay on track.

Schedule Weekly Dates. If you don’t water your plants on a regular basis, they’re going to wither away. The same is true for relationships. The problem, though, is that relationships wither away much more slowly than any plant. And by the time we realize it, we have a real problem on our hands. The key is regular care, and in the case of relationships, that means a minimum of one date night per week. The same way you make time for your favorite TV shows or exercise classes at the gym, you need to make time for your partner. It may be as simple as shutting off your phones and making dinner with each other – or as adventurous as a night in the Cave Room at Executive Fantasy Hotels ?

Remind Them. Simple gestures can go a long way toward showing someone just how much you truly do care. It’s not the gifts and acknowledgements on holidays and birthdays that do the trick; it’s the ‘just because’ moments. A note on the table. A mix of their favorite songs for a long commute. Stuff like that. Gifts that not only say “I care,” but “I pay attention.”

More Sex. Studies prove it to be true – the couples that have more sex are happier. Sure, the physical gratification is a stress reliever and mood booster on its own. But for connectedness to your partner? That’s big, too. It’s hard to admit, but consistently having sex with your partner can become hard work over the long haul. Kids. Work. Busy schedules. It all gets in the way of the free spirit that used to make sex an easy joy. The key? You have to make it happen. Talk about it openly and commit to doing it more often. Add some extra spice when you take your role play to Executive Fantasy Hotels!

Love doesn’t come easily, but then again, what’s worth having that comes easily? There’s nothing else more rewarding than sharing in a happy love with your partner. Make it the year of love in 2013, and let Executive Fantasy Hotels help you along the way!