Wet & Wild Risk – Taking Adventures

Let’s face it. Sometimes even the best of sex can become routine and, well, ordinary. Hey, it happens to the best of us. But not this time! As you know, we’re in the midst of our ‘Get Wet This Summer’ promotion, which not only encourages wet and wild fun, but lets you do it by saving $15 off your rental of an Executive Suite or Theme Room at our Executive Airport Hotel location.

So how do you break out of the rut of routine? Risky adventures. Nothing will make you – literally and figuratively – ‘come alive’ than stepping outside of your comfort zone. For some, a risky adventure might be a visit to the Executive Fantasy Hotels Cave Room. For others, it might be a late evening skinny dip in the ocean or backyard swimming pool.

Here’s how you do it. As is the case with many things in life, the majority of the excitement comes from anticipation. Get yours rising high by planning a wet and wild adventure with your lady a few days in advance. Text her about it periodically and give her a glimpse into your imagination as the moment approaches. She’ll love hearing about what she can look forward to – and the more descriptive you can be, the better. You can even add in a ‘stranger’ element to the fun by agreeing to meet somewhere, instead of going together.

Then? Well, the meeting itself is where the fun comes in. You can check out our previous blog for some great tips on shower sex, or if you’re still planning a night in bed, you can check out our blog about lubes, too. Whatever the case, have some fun with it. And be sure to schedule risk-taking adventures more often than not. That’s how you keep the passion alive.

Are the idea wheels moving now? Any new ideas of your own? We’d love to hear them!

Shower Power – 3 Positions for Steamy Sex to ‘Wet’ Your Appetite

We didn’t have to tell you that two wet bodies pressed against one another was a good time, but why take the risk of leaving you in the dark? Besides, we’ve been reminding you to ‘Get Wet’ at Executive Fantasy Hotels, right here in Miami. We even have waterfall showers and some rooms are equipped with private swimming pools. Hey, we wouldn’t get you hot and bothered without giving you a way to handle your business.

But back to the topic at hand – shower sex. We could spend lines of text trying to explain why it rocks, or theorize as to why the sensation is so spectacular, but who cares? The fact of the matter is that it sends your body into a frenzy of excitement and, frankly, we just want more of it. Don’t you? Here are a few tips:

  1. Face-to-Face. Water fun brings water dangers, too. If you’re going for it standing up, you’ll want to keep your balance in check. Have your guy stand underneath the shower head and face him chest to chest. Have him lift one of your legs and wrap it around his back side while holding you against him with the other, then use the leverage against one another to make some magic movements. Getting hot already? Well, just lower the water temperature.
  2. Take it to the Ground. Ladies, you’ll never look at ‘taking a bath’ the same way after this one. Lay down on the floor of the tub, shifting your weight over to one side so that you’re able to keep one leg resting on the ground while lifting up the other. Then have your guy slide himself over your lower leg while holding up your other leg as he makes his move. Make sure the bathtub is filled, though, and consider leaving the shower water off for this one. And just move to the ‘motion in the ocean.’
  3. The Wet Dog. An awful visual metaphor might become one of your favorites in a hurry. It’s a wet twist on doggie style from a standing start. Position the shower head directly between the point where your two bodies meet in the doggie style set-up, and feel the warm water trickle down to create more wet excitement where it matters most. If it gets to be too much to handle, consider positioning your hands up against the shower wall.

After reading these, maybe what you’ll need is a cold shower – that is, until you can get your guy and check off the ‘to-do’ list above in a hot shower. And we want to help you out, too! You can take advantage of a $15 off deal when you book an Executive Suite or Theme Room at our Executive Airport Hotel location. Room rentals are based on availability and you must be 18 years of age or older to get in on the fun. But days are passing by real fast so hurry in and feel free to get creative. The deal expires on October 10, 2012, so come see us today!

Add Lube for Some Wet & Wild Fun

Hey there, Fantasy Friends! This week, we’re getting a little wet – with lube, that is. Wait, who are we kidding – We’ve been encouraging you to ‘Get Wet This Summer’ from the start! And what better time to do it than now? When the going gets rough – figuratively and literally – whether because of stress or other factors, lubes are a great way to ease things up. More and more, love-makers are lubing up love time with a little bit of extra moisture, so the focus is on the fun, and not on discomfort.

The options run aplenty, but water-based lubes are perhaps the best and safest bet. For starters, they won’t stain your sheets or bedding with oily residue and they’re safer for your lady parts, too. Play it extra safe with a glycerin-free lube to avoid the added risk of a yeast infection (the sugars in glycerin can multiply yeast – yikes!)

Beyond that? Leave a small bottle at your bedside and let him get in on the action, too. Show him how fun it can be by leading the way – get a small amount on your hands, rub them together, then touch his man parts so he can feel the difference for himself. Then ask him to return the favor. To really ‘heat-up’ the excitement, get a warming liquid, which will add a bit of extra warmth to any part that you rub.

Woo hoo! Anyone else feeling a bit warm under the collar? Maybe you should get that little bottle sooner than later and spend an evening at Executive Fantasy Hotels. This summer, you can save $15 Off an Executive Suite or Theme Room at the Executive Airport Hotel. Visit www.executivefantasyhotels.com to take advantage of our latest offer and Get Wet today!

Don’t forget to flirt with us on Facebook.com/ExecutiveFantasyHotels and Twitter @exfantasyhotels to learn more about our upcoming promotions and hot updates.

How to Bring Back the Fire in your Relationship

It was easy in the beginning, wasn’t it? No matter what happened during the work day, or how tired one of you may have been, there was always time for some sexual excitement and activity at the end of the day. But now? It’s not that you don’t want to; it’s just not coming to you as easily as it did before. Have no fear. We’ve got three tips that will start a fire in your bedroom tonight (go ahead and grab the fire extinguisher!)

One. Stop nitpicking and nagging. Both of you. If we stopped to think about the things that we gave our partners grief for on a day-to-day basis, we’d probably find that a good chunk of it was misplaced frustration or just flat-out unnecessary. Set a goal of three days, or maybe start at one. And in that time frame, commit to speaking to that person just like you did in the beginning, and even asking them questions about their day and what’s on their mind. You’ll be amazed by the shift toward positive energy.

Two. Remember how you got here. You didn’t end up with this person on accident. You chose them. You felt something powerful for them and at a point in time, it was an almost magnetic force. Well, what was it? What did it feel like? What was happening that made it fun and exciting? Piece by piece, try to duplicate certain elements of that beginning excitement. You might be surprised by how easy it becomes to see this person in a different light, just like you used to.

Three. Do it. Yes, ‘it.’ If you stop having sex, then you’re basically just roommates. And who needs that? Not you. We get it – schedules get hard, obligations increase and sex just doesn’t happen as easily as it used to. Get over it. If that means scheduling a weekly ‘Tuesday Night Touch’ or ‘Saturday Morning Session,’ go for it. The assumption that scheduled sex is boring and forced quickly goes out the window once you’re there and going at it. Sex is made for relationships, and if you’re not having it, then what do you have?

Those are just three tips, but there are certainly others. What have you done to keep the fire alive in your relationship? We’d love to hear from you. Even better? We’d love to see you. Plan a one-nighter at an Executive Fantasy Hotels location and take advantage of our special, discounted offer by visiting www.ExecutiveFantasyHotels.com.

You can also flirt with us on Facebook.com/ExecutiveFantasyHotels and Twitter @exfantasyhotels to learn more about our upcoming promotions and hot updates. We double dare you…

5 Signs He Wants to Have Sex

OK, ladies. Most of the time, you don’t exactly need a forensics kit to know when your man wants lovin’.  One could joke that if they’re breathing, they’re in the mood. But besides the most obvious way, believe it or not, there are other, more subtle, ways to tell too.

Next time you’re out together, look out for these five signs:

His pupils are dilated.                                                              

No, this doesn’t just happen when you’re getting your eyes checked. Your pupils dilate when you are aroused and turned on, so look into his peepers and see.

He speaks more deeply.                                                          

Studies show that a man lowers his pitch when he’s turned on. Just pray he doesn’t go overboard or you may get the giggles.

He hugs you around your lower back.                              

Really, any physical contact in this area would be a clue, since let’s face it, your booty is back there and that’s hard enough to resist.

He bites his lower lip.                                                            

This may even happen if he’s nervous, but it’s an endearing effort before he’s just about ready to pounce.

He rubs your shoulders.                                                    

Apparently, this is a subconscious simulation of grabbing elsewhere on your body and of course, it allows for closer contact.

Regardless of whether you notice these signs or not, there’s no better way to grant him his request than with a sexy outing at Executive Fantasy Hotels. Book one of our fantasy suites by clicking here.

3 Ideas On How To Turn On Your Valentine’s Day

Planning on having a wild sexual encounter this Valentine’s day? It doesn’t matter if the experience you are looking for is soft and gentle or rough and adventurous — what matters is that you make it a memorable night for your partner.  Do something different this year, something more enticing. Read on and jump start your imagination…

  1. Taste. Chocolate, anyone? What may come to mind are the heart shape chocolates you can get at any convenience store. Why don’t you try something different this year and indulge in a chocolate fondue? Set the mood before your partner with candles and flowers. Cover fresh strawberries or even your own skin. Get creative.
  2. Stare. Have you ever played the staring game? Eye contact can be the sexiest part of intimacy with your partner. Try gazing into each other’s eyes throughout the whole love-making experience. Whether you take it seriously or giggle a little, sex is supposed to be fun and bring you closer together. Pretty simple, right?
  3. Pretend. What if your partner could pick you up…again? Pick a time and place to meet at, in separate cars, and take on a new persona as if you were strangers. Whether you become Grace the florist or Chris the racecar driver, have fun with it and let it be organic. Maybe you will be the one to initiate conversation with your
    mysterious, yet familiar lover. After some seductive and suggestive banter, go
    to a private place to take your tryst all the way!

Got some Valentine’s Day ideas of your own? Share them with us by visiting our Facebook page http://on.fb.me/y9wfyR. And be sure to visit www.executivefantasyhotels.com for more on how we can turn on your Valentine’s Day!

Does Size Really Matter?

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Yep. We went there. It’s a question that women talk about either aloud or in private, and it’s something that men wonder about – whether or not they’ll admit it.

Men’s ‘members’ come in all shapes and sizes, as is the case for women and their lady parts. So which ones create the best fit? Anatomically, a man’s length isn’t necessarily all it’s cracked up to be, at least in terms of a woman’s satisfaction. Instead, a woman’s most pleasure-packed areas are best triggered by a man’s girth.

But of course, size isn’t all that defines a man and his sexual capabilities. Being well endowed doesn’t qualify you as a great lover, the same way that being less-than-large doesn’t disqualify you. If you’re working with less, fear not. There are positions you can try that will generate more friction, and others like doggy style that allow you to better target the G-spot.

At the end of the day? Open communication about your sexual satisfaction will always be a game changer. If you can vocalize your likes and dislikes, you’ll both be better off. Big or small.

How about you? Do you think size matters? If so, tell us about it. The Executive Fantasy Hotels blog is all about exploring real fantasies with real people. We’re Miami’s premier adult paradise. And don’t forget – it’s okay to come inside.